Research says people who never post on social media aren’t antisocial, secretive, or behind the times — they have noticed that performing their life cost them the ability to live in it

There is a kind of account that looks dormant but is not. The person behind it opens the app most days. They read, they scroll, they follow the threads, they keep loose track of people they have not spoken to in years. What they do not do is post. The last thing they put up